Soul-mates?

There comes a time in ones life, when the oh so infamous questions come to light. 

Will I ever find my Soul-mate?

Does Prince Charming really exist? 

Will I ever find true love and happiness? 

Let me tell you this from experience, the answer to those questions, is actually very simple yet complicated all in the same breath. YES & NO. To clarify, why it is both.

Will I ever find my Soul-Mate

--Yes. Will it be your husband? No. Could it be your best girl friend? Yes

I've come to learn that maybe soul-mates doesn't have to mean "The man of your dreams, best friend, etc" Like society and movies lead you to believe.  Your soul-mate is someone who you connect to on any & every level. Their in perfections, bad habits, everything else just seems to dissolve  like it was never an issue to begin with. 

I guess everyone defines soul-mates a little different here and there. I'm still trying to figure it out. 

Does Prince Charming really exist? No.

Unless some lady named her son prince charming, Its unlikely that he will exist. Now that's not to say that there is no prince charming, because they're are several, just with a more common name like John Smith. He or even she, could be your fireman, doctor, plumber, person bagging your groceries or even that girl who gave you a dirty look across the bar. By now if you haven't caught the reference I'm referring to, let me refresh and take a step back.

When your house catches on fire, a fireman will put it out.

When your sick and hurting a doctor will make you feel better.

When your alone and lost, even a strangers helpful words could be your compass. 

I believe, there is a prince charming in each and every one of us, well all do believe in good, and I know you can all name a time where you felt like a knight in silver armor saving someone, even if it was just opening a door for a pregnant lady, just for moment, you were her prince charming. 

Will I ever find true love and happiness? Yes

You already have. Take a moment right now and look around you. Yes, you could be unhappy at the moment, but that doesn't mean you never found happiness. True love could be in the form of anything, Landing your dream job, the love of your life, a hobby. Everyone has something in their life they are truly passionate about, and honestly that is true love. That goes for happiness also, I'm going to take a wild guess, if you are reading this, you are on a computer or cell phone, with internet, somewhere nice a warm. Think about it, would you prefer your life to be worse then where you are right now? No I don't think so, you may not be running around screaming and puking rainbows, but you are happy in the moment. 

As we end the day, we all have are own opinions in what something could mean and frankly that's OK.

Because each and every one of us, is just a simple heart, working towards one goal.

-Mia